Thursday, August 1, 2013

Life Blest....Life Lived...


The first time I saw this person I thought for a while as to from where this person hails. Why such a question? Simply because of his hugeness and tallness. Getting to know from people around and those living with him; I got to know his personality (which I will share later). But when I came to Divyadaan, got to really know him as a person – a Convinced person (religious), a Caring person (human & pastoral), a Challenging person (intellectual). This only reminds me of last night good night thought given by Fr. Matthew Couthino SDB, the Vice Rector & Catechists of the Salesian Training Institute - DIVYADAAN, summarizing all the qualities of this person in just 2Hs – Head and Heart. He has been my Rector for 4+1=5 years of my initial formation (the fifth year is…). Definitely, knowingly-unknowingly, consciously-unconsciously and wanting-unwanting, a lot of this person has been and become part of me. I think that as a person he is; and what comes across is kind yet firm, and if you want to know a (boy-brother-Salesian), it is on the playground. This is very true ‘coz I remember the days when he would come to play and even now though he is off the ground (due to a knee problem), he is very much present and part of the game (standing in the corner of the ground). [well, if you get a chance you must see him play football and basketball]. I remember when I was a student in Divyadaan, we brothers would talk as to which priest in the Campus/Province is handsome, and I think he would be ranking in the first three. Coming back to from where I began, about he being huge and tall, another synonym that needs to be added, is that of largeness. His heart has the largeness of…of…(well, you can come and experience…).All I can do as a token of love, and a gesture of appreciation which can be unnoticeable is to pray and respect him for the person he is.


This morning, in his sermon he shared his life: life in and of his family, (a family that prayed together stayed together) and his joURney towards Priesthood (thy will be done & Love Calleth, Love Sendeth – this I faintly remember because when I was in divyadaan along with other brothers and staff celebrated his Silver Jubliee of….). This I believe is the summit of what he is today – PRIEST FOR ALL - the experiences that formed him and made him the person he is. During his sermon he also made mention of the many persons apart from his family members who helped me be what he is; and owes humble gratitude to Fr. Elias Dias, Fr. Vincent Vaz, Fr. Joseph Casti, Fr. Moya, Fr. Thomas Braganza, Fr Matthew Couthino and Fr Kenneth Pereira. He attributed his personality and characters to them. He also expressed his thanks to God for gifting him a supportive staff wherever he goes. He thanked the staff of Divyadaan and all the brothers for placing their trust in him through various ways. All in All I think he enjoyed his day people coming to wish him, giving him blessings and gifts; all the emails and sms’s; all the phone calls and miss calls; all of us wishing him and the cutting of the cake; and most importantly the presence of his mummy. In the good nite he shared about the net in which we collect all the things (good and bad) depends what we want to keep, treasure and remember.

hapy biRthdae...der Fr SAVIO....

Tuesday, July 2, 2013

Kodak Moment for the Flowers to SMILE in Divyadaan

Great day in Divyadaan to see all the lovely flowers to admire at them and marvel at the creator.
All we can do is give praise and thanks to HIM.


































Saturday, October 6, 2012

Death is...


Death is feelingless, Death is thinkingless

Death is futureless, Death is timeless

Death is adjectiveless, Death is experienceless

Death is talkless, Death is worldless

Death is worryless, Death is presentless

Death is Death…within and without

Death takes our breath away 

Death takes our family away

Death takes our happiness away

Death takes our relationships away

Death is always destined to makes it way

Forever in one’s life to stay

Death creates a sense of dryness and decay

Death is Death...within or withou


Thursday, September 13, 2012

Networking...

I always had my belief in believing in 4 C's - Convictions, Commitments, Challenges, Confidence; but now I am not only confronted with a truth that I discovered today but also carefronted with the uncertainty of this certain persisting trend of 4 C's - Collaborations, Culturization, Conviences, Civilizations. This is the sign I think that we are marked and forced to let our spirit filled life to live in structures bound in chains of NETWORKING. 

Mentioned here about chained in or webbed in NETWORKING because we are living in an age of networking. Right now I am seated in on the back row seats of a Hall in Divyadaan - Salesian Institute of Philosophy, Nashik - India, attending/participating in the Seminar called, "Networking: Philosophical Basis and Applications. It is already a day past but I must say that I was made to reflect and stress my thinking only after hearing the speaker of the day, a certain Mr Conrad Saldanha. He shared his views and reflection on Media and Networking. My mind did appreciate his thought on the same topic. 

Monday, August 20, 2012

l'amante di fiore - dedicated to Fr Ashley Miranda SDB


I have never seen a person so fallen in love with flowers. When asked, “Since when you had the interest in flowers?” He replied,”Since I was a brother, but even more after I became a Priest.”

The discovery of fascinas for flowers was seen when we went for our picnic to Igatpuri the other day. Where we had a long walk between mountains and landscapes.

















A scene where he is engrossed taking and saving the image of a peculiar flower on his Nokia…..

Whether to call it a hobby or a passion I leave it to you reading this…… I would often wonder why people like to bring nature at home with planting and potting of fruits and flowers. I think it is because of only one thing- that is LOVE. I would often think that they are killing or destroying life of a plant/tree/fruit/flower but maybe I was wrong. It is to bring and give life to the world around them.

His eyes are always racing just like his mind to pick on things (nature-flowers) which we don’t see around. He is a person living in the present, the now, the moment- he enjoys living life to the full. By this I mean that whatever he is at be it - Celebrating Mass (Priest), taking class (professor), marketing for us (Administrator), talking to brothers (Formation in-charge of the Provincial Councillor), when he walks there is energy, when he talks there’s fire within.

You might be thinking why such praise and flattery or rather a query ticking as to why I am pleasing this chap. Well, you are free to think as you like. All I have done is expressed what I have seen and only seen, thought and only thought about this “top chap, top there”. Who has touched the lives of many youngsters (brothers), including myself. He is fondly called ‘Papa’. Loving yet firm, kind yet demanding. He believes in doing things well with energy, and whole heartedness. The Lover of Flowers has got a lot to give each one of us. Let us also be lovers of flowerz…

ENT or TNT



ENT or TNT I don’t know what to call him guy/friend/brother/dude??? – Amazing Superman or as his batchmaids would call him (say going back to 2005-2006) Pokemon (this is because of his skills in football). He’s got the nack to grab attention without even making attempt or seeking by his appearance. I must say that he is a mood swinger.  For me, I often call him hey Rickz/Ricky Boy, he’s really a gem of a person life full of Energy, Enthusiasm and E……. (Guess what). He is really a blessing to be with. Though at times which is very rare one might experience fuming flames getting oneself burnt when he’s around but this is surely only a personified exaggeration of him He is a person loved by all (till date whomsoever I’ve seen him with/come across with). His physic appears to be as one who is thin and tall which also brings out his frankness of being straightforward and standing for right, truth, justice, equality. This is not a subject of economics or sociology but a scientific mind and logical being who speaks his heart and mind. Speaking of science and logic, presently he is earning his degree in computer science I wander what I should say with regard to his looks with spectacles or glares, he has a charm of a prince which can easily pierce the hearts of many princess. His sense of humour and love for people around him is beyond measure. He is person filled with qualities such as caring, loving, sharing, generous, and helpful which has super passes all qualification. I must also add that he is a man of principles and rules. Well, he does remind me of one great Salesian, a successor of Don Bosco – Michael Rua…U (Salesians) might think of this as WHAT?!?! But this is what I think…Ah…ya…I didn’t tell you who he is…He is a Salesian..& his name is…well catch him on Facebook for his identity…R....

Tuesday, June 12, 2012

Sweep...Sweep...Sweep


…Sweeping a room where there is dust collected, or a corridor where there are footprints, marks, remains, cobwebs, or a long path (drive) where there are dried leaves fallen from the trees. Whether we like or not dust keeps collecting, leaves keep falling. So the question which I asked myself, “is it necessary to SWEEP?” Yes/No, this depends on you if it were you.

…A thought racing through my mind gripped my attention as I was reflecting on the issue of sweeping. But a parallel line was also running, that of, life. I guess, it’s the same with life, filled with – worries, anxieties, insults, hardships, taunts, wickedness, shamefulness, jealously, hatred, harshness, durgeness, dreadful, deadfulness, threats, cowardice, either within self or with the self, or with the self other than the self. And so the same question which I asked myself “is it necessary to SWEEP?” Yes/No, this depends on you if it were you.

It is the question that makes the two thoughts one which shows two implications that apply to the situation: one is to make it look pleasant, clean and pleasing to the eye; the other to see and show others, a façade to put on. One brings out the element of heart full of love and primary need; the other the element of head out of shear order, command and secondary need.

I am not saying that one is right or the other is wrong neither am I saying that one is good or the other is bad. It is only an expression of what my head was feeling and my heart thinking. What I was attempting at was only SWEEPING…